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The BFLC Break Up Box!
Helping In Tough Times
Falling in love is fun, exciting and romantic. It is all the things we dream of and romance novels are made of. And then there is falling out of love – it is, as we know, just the opposite. The end of a significant relationship will bring with it fear, grief and sadness and a range of other emotions that can turn even the most controlled person into a madman! One of the hardest things next to your own divorce is watching your best friend, or loved one, deal with all that flows from the breakdown of their relationship. This is where our Break Up Box comes in! We like to think of our Break Up Box as the ‘warm hug’ you or someone you love needs right now. Relationship breakdowns are rarely something to be celebrated but our Break Up Box will hopefully bring a smile and sigh of relief during the most challenging of times.
How Does It Work
Whether it’s for you or someone you love, our custom designed Break Up Boxes will be hand filled with care and shipped straight to you. All boxes contain helpful information thanks to our years of helping families through separation and divorce and a bundle of locally made treats that are designed to keep you going even on the trickiest of days. And because we know it helps to hear from those who have been there before, we have included a few tips from the amazing people we have worked with over the years- things they know now that they wish they new in the beginning that have helped them through.
Basic Break Up Box
‘A little bit of Magic’
Our ‘Little but of Magic’ basic Break Up Box contains the following- Treats for you-
- Yalu all natural Zeo Rose Organic Face Mask
- Yalu all natural Sacred Flora Smudge Bath Soak
- Hey Tiger Signature Blend Chocolate Bar (aka 85g of Chocolate heaven including 1 of the following flavours-
- Summer in the City – Milk Chocolate, Peanut butter, pretzel praline and crushed roasted peanuts
- Best Mates – Milk chocolate with Coconut & Caramelised Popcorn
- Fairy Wings – vegan milk chocolate with a fairy bread twist!
- A 200ml tin of the most amazing Bush Scent soy wax candle hand made in Goondiwindi thanks to Jess of Jersey Candles
- 500ml Bottle of hand made soda syrup thanks to the team at Six Barrels Co including 1 of the following-
- Cherry and Pomegranate
- Rose Lemonade
- Creaming Soda
- Hibiscus
- A little box of tips – a bundle of cards full of helpful tips from those who have been here before- things they wish they knew that they are sharing to help you along
- Copy of the book ‘Splitsville- How to separate, stay out of Court and stay friends’ by specialist Family Lawyer, Clarissa Rayward
- ‘Jam packed full of good ideas’ notebook to capture your plans, dreams and ideas as you start to dream a new dream
Luxe Break Up Box
‘A whole lot of Magic’
Our ‘A whole lot of Magic’ Luxe Break Up Box contains the following- Treats for you-
- Yalu all natural Zeo Rose Organic Face Mask
- Yalu all natural Sacred Flora Smudge Bath Soak
- Hey Tiger Signature Blend Chocolate Bar (aka 85g of Chocolate heaven including 1 of the following flavours-
- Summer in the City – Milk Chocolate, Peanut butter, pretzel praline and crushed roasted peanuts
- Best Mates – Milk chocolate with Coconut & Caramelised Popcorn
- Fairy Wings – vegan milk chocolate with a fairy bread twist!
- A 200ml tin of the most amazing Bush Scent soy wax candle hand made in Goondiwindi thanks to Jess of Jersey Candles
Top Notes: Lemon, Pine Needle Middle Notes: Eucalyptus, Lemon Myrtle Base Notes: Patchouli, Sandalwood - 500ml Bottle of hand made soda syrup thanks to the team at Six Barrels Co including 1 of the following-
- Cherry and Pomegranate
- Rose Lemonade
- Creaming Soda
- Hibiscus
- A little box of tips – a bundle of cards full of helpful tips from those who have been here before- things they wish they knew that they are sharing to help you along
- Copy of the book ‘Splitsville- How to separate, stay out of Court and stay friends’ by specialist Family Lawyer, Clarissa Rayward
- ‘Jam packed full of good ideas’ notebook to capture your plans, dreams and ideas as you start to dream a new dream
- And our Luxe Bonus pack includes access to our online program ‘Splitsville the Course’ valued at $499 for only $50.00. You can learn more about Splitsville the Course here.
Supporting Local Artisans
So why this selection of strangely colourful gifts? Yes, we know it all seems a little strange but we hunted around Australia and NZ to support local and small artisans. All products are locally made but together create an experience that we like to call ‘a little bit of magic’! And our Luxe box includes all of that plus some! So how does it work… Well we imagine it might look a little like this…
You’ve Got This
I know a box of tricks is not going to wave away the challenge that comes with the end of a relationship. Having worked as a family lawyer for 20 years now, I have seen it all. But I can say to you- “You’ve got this!” Sure, none of us really plan to fall out of love, but sometimes we do and with time, you will get through this.
Life is full of ups and downs and I have come to learn that it is the downs that bring the greatest breakthroughs if we just keep pushing through them. Whatever life is throwing at your right now, don’t give up. Take it a day at a time and remember that the end of a relationship can also be an opportunity to dream a new dream, when you are ready.
In your magic box you will also find a notebook to encourage you to dream those dreams and write them down- this little book can hide in your handbag and I encourage you to use it to store a few new ideas, or those things keeping you up at night as over the next few months all of these questions will be answered. And you should also have a copy of my book, Splitsville, that will help you to better understand the legal process when you are ready.
Just because your past did not turn out the way you hoped doesn’t mean that your future can’t be better than you imagined. So as my dear friend Sam wisely says about her own divorce- it’s time to be ‘kickass but kind’ as you look after you and dream yourself a new dream!
Director and Creator of BFLC
